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Mark Manson Interview with David Tian at Aura Dating Academy – “Inside the Players’ Lounge”

The latest interview in the “Inside the Players’ Lounge” series is with my good friend, Mark Manson, who has written some of the very BEST analyses of relationships and mating psychology. Many of his articles have gone seriously viral… and for very good reason. Just some of the things you’ll learn in this video include: […]

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How to Gain Weight and Muscle for Skinny Guys: What the Military Can Teach Us

Let’s face it. Guys in Singapore tend to be skinnier than the world average. This is consistent with the rest of the Southeast Asian area, so it wasn’t all that noticeable until recently with the sharp influx of imported, foreign professionals and executives, many from Western countries. While being skinnier is not necessarily a bad […]

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Christian Hudson in Singapore: Special Seminar on High Value Communication

If you know my story, you’d know that my very first mentor–the man who got me started on my journey of success with women and relationships–was Christian Hudson, who is currently running The Social Man in New York City. He’s been featured in numerous media outlets, including CNN, Psychology Today, Men’s Health, and ABC News. […]

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What They Never Taught You in School: My 8 Days Magazine Interview

The reporter for 8 Days was the most thoroughly prepared reporter I’ve ever been interviewed by. He distilled my points into 6 Life Lessons. I especially appreciated the sixth lesson, which emphasized that learning how to pick up girls doesn’t bring happiness. Click on the images to enlarge.

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Professor Norman Li of SMU (All Parts)

UPDATE: I’ve just uploaded the third and final segment of the interview with Norman Li! Scroll down to view it! Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Richard La Ruina (Gambler) of PUA Training: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 7, Parts 1-4

It was a real pleasure interviewing Richard when he visited Singapore and the Academy last month. I don’t like “pick up artists,” but although Richard directs a company called PUA Training, he’s entirely an upstanding guy, grounded and wholesome, and the sort of guy you’d be comfortable introducing to your mom or sister. Like some […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Future of Love Systems: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 6, Parts 1-3

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 6, Parts 1-3 Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., interviews Future (real name: Thompson), the most senior […]

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Dating Coach Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews DJ Fuji: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 5, Parts 1-5

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 5, Parts 1-5 Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., (Dr. Asian Rake) interviews another of the world’s […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 4

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 4 This final part of the Q&A in the interview addresses a problem endemic to Singaporean men, who often live at home with the parents until they reach the age of 35 or get married: * How to hook up with girls if you still live at home […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 4, Part 3

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 3: Interview with Singapore Lion Click here to see the first part of the interview. Some of the lessons you’ll learn in this Q&A part of the interview include… * How being “elite” in society can make a difference in attracting women and how you can benefit from […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 2

So begins the Q&A part of the interview. In this interview, Dr. David Tian chats with alumnus Lion, who first got coaching from David as an 18 yo., was raised and educated in elite settings in Singapore, went on to become director of multiple branches of a multinational financial firm, and is now taking his […]

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Singapore Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1: Interview with Lion This episode touches on a favorite topic of mine: That the qualities that many Asians mistakenly take to be “Asian thought” or “Asian culture” or “Asian philosophy” are actually not at all what elite Asians throughout history have believed or how they have behaved. […]

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Sheiryn Aisiqa and Lifestyle Travel Tips

Some superficial readers (mostly hailing from one of the moralistic and conservative Asian sub-cultures–I won’t name names here but you probably know who you are) assume that I live a lifestyle of one-night stands, threesomes, orgies, boozing, snorting coke off a stripper’s butt, and lord knows what other sinful activity. While at some point in […]

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Dr. David Tian’s on “The Hot Seat” Interview by Will X of Singapore’s 938 LIVE Radio Show

It was my great honour and pleasure to be interviewed on Will X’s radio show “The Hot Seat” on Singapore’s 938 LIVE last Tuesday evening from 7-8 PM. The entire interview will be aired again 1-2 PM on Saturday, November 12 and 9-10 PM on Sunday, November 13. It was the most intelligent interview I’ve […]

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Singapore Dating Academy AURA’s Full-Page Feature Article in Singapore’s Highest Circulation Newspaper, The Straits Times

There was also a front-page blurb near the top of the cover saying, “DATING ACADEMIES: If love is a battlefield, here’s how some men train up.” I’ve just received a cease and desist letter from Singapore Press Holdings dictating that I cannot show the scans of the newspaper article. Talk about beating up on the […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai, Part 4

This part of the interview will be of special interest to those raised or living in Singapore. Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 3

Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating […]

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Dating Advice Columnist in Malaysia Aaron Tang!

Just a couple months after attending an Attraction Accelerated Weekend Workshop, Aaron Tang was invited to contribute a regular column on the Malaysia lifestyle site, Emm-A-Man. When he first came to me, he had very little experience, especially in clubs. Man, did he do a huge 180 that weekend. And now he’s teaching others about […]

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Singapore Dating Academy: AURA. Behind the Scenes Photos.

I just put these up on our facebook fan page. Thought you might enjoy seeing them here, too. These are a few “behind the scenes” photos snapped during one of our Academy classes. Aura Dating Academy trainers in action. As you can see, we are fortunate enough to have Asia’s top female dating coach on […]

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Sex & Men: My “Ask Cleo” Column on Relationships

Cleo Magazine asked me to contribute a few pieces for their dating column, and here they are. These are aimed at the ladies 🙂 My answer to My boyfriend says he wants a breakup, but I know he still loves me. How can I salvage our relationship? Estee, 21 My answer to I just came […]

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