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Category Archives for Self-Development

Life Coaching, Anthony Robbins, and How to Get Girls (My Interview with Dating Skills Review)

You might have noticed a shift in the content that I’ve been putting out over the past few years. It’s been an enjoyable process of growth, progress, and evolution to go beyond just a narrow interest in pleasure and women.  And naturally, that has led to a change in my own research interests, coaching, and […]

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Mark Manson Interview with David Tian at Aura Dating Academy – “Inside the Players’ Lounge”

The latest interview in the “Inside the Players’ Lounge” series is with my good friend, Mark Manson, who has written some of the very BEST analyses of relationships and mating psychology. Many of his articles have gone seriously viral… and for very good reason. Just some of the things you’ll learn in this video include: […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Adventurous and Easygoing (Part 6 of 6)

This is Part 6 and the last part in this section. To read from Part 1 of this section on being adventurous and easygoing, click here. To read the Introduction to the Manifesto, click here. How to Have It All Now you want to know how you can do this, how you can have it […]

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The Manifesto: How to be a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Adventurous and Easygoing (Part 5)

This is Part 5 in the series. To read from Part 1 of this section on being adventurous and easygoing, click here. To read the Introduction to the Manifesto, click here. Easygoing: Becoming Cool, and the Difference between Assertiveness and Aggressiveness Paradoxically, being adventurous and being easygoing go hand-in-hand. Because you are laid-back and don’t […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Adventurous and Easygoing (Part 4)

This is Part 4 in a series. To read from Part 1 of this section on being adventurous and easygoing, click here. To read the Introduction to the Manifesto, click here. Overcoming Fear Often, adventure isn’t adventurous without some element of risk and fear. To become an adventurous person, you’ve got to get used to […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Adventurous and Easygoing (Part 3)

Becoming Adventurous In a poignant scene of the Martin Scorsese film, Hugo, the main character–an orphaned boy–remarked that he wanted to do something, to which the female lead–his “love” interest–replied, “No, it’s too dangerous. We could get into trouble.” To this the heroic boy replied, That’s how we know it’s an adventure! To have an […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Adventurous and Easygoing (Part 2)

Developing Independence and Eliminating Approval-Seeking Behaviour The next installment in our Manifesto series! To read from the Introduction, click here. To read from the start of the this section on being Adventurous and Easygoing, click here. So you grew up with strict, demanding parents and ended up with an approval-seeking personality, especially from women. You’re […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Adventurous and Easygoing (Part 1)

The sexually attractive man–no matter his race–is a leader, assertive, sexual, and adventurous and easy going. Now let’s look in more detail at the last two traits: Adventurous and Easygoing. For the Introduction to this series, click here. For the first part of the series, which was on Leadership, click here. We know that women […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Leadership (Part 3/3)

The first step to becoming a sexually attractive Asian man is to develop leadership in yourself. This is the third instalment on “Leadership.” To see the introduction of the Manifesto, click here. To read the previous installment on Leadership, click here. Every empowered Asian man I’ve ever met knows how to take charge. They are […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Leadership (Part 2/3)

For the introduction to the series on being a Sexually Attractive Asian Man, click here. For Part 1 of “Leadership” in this series, click here. Onto Part 2 of “Leadership”: Now let’s be clearer and examine actual real-life examples of such elite, sexually attractive Asian men. Let’s look at history first, because by the time […]

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Leadership (Part 1/3)

In the Introduction, I stated that an attractive, sexually successful Asian male is assertive, adventurous and easy going. He is also highly sexual, and perhaps foremost, the sexually attractive Asian male is a leader. To see the Introduction, click here. From talking to countless Singaporeans about this, I’ve discovered that some in Singapore think being […]

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The MANIFESTO: How to become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Introduction

The Asian man is a bit of an underdog in the modern dating world. While he possesses many qualities that might help him to be a good husband, these qualities are often overlooked by women who are initially looking for hot dating material, not husbands. You, as an Asian man, need to understand the feelings […]

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How to Travel for 3 Weeks and Make Passive Income

Just got back from a 12-day vacation through Paris and London, just a couple of months after a 10-day vacation snowboarding and sakura viewing in Japan. Now I’m busy catching up on meetings and other work, but I’m inspired. At some point, once I finish uploading the rest of the Norman Li interview, I might […]

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Sheiryn Aisiqa and Lifestyle Travel Tips

Some superficial readers (mostly hailing from one of the moralistic and conservative Asian sub-cultures–I won’t name names here but you probably know who you are) assume that I live a lifestyle of one-night stands, threesomes, orgies, boozing, snorting coke off a stripper’s butt, and lord knows what other sinful activity. While at some point in […]

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How Can I Get Girls when I’m Asian, Short, Too Young, or [insert limiting belief here]?

The Aura Dating Academy Private Forum is rockin’! There is so much great content there, I can barely keep up. One frequent contributor is Approach Coach and former client Lt. Walker. Being a Singaporean of Indian descent, he recently wrote his thoughts on Limiting Beliefs having to do with race, height, age, or whatever. Without […]

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