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How to Beat Negative Racial Stereotypes

Since we’re on the topic of race and how it affects meeting women, I want to bring your attention to this awesome article by Sebastian of the Approach. He mentions me a third of the way down, right after he talks about Tom Cruise. I’m the Chinese-Canadian. My physique’s a lot better now. lol. Cheers, […]

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New Domain Name–Public Release!

On November 3, the Chinese government decided to unblock blogspot sites. I took advantage of this window to purchase this domain name. Hopefully, the Great Firewall of China will not extend to this humble site as well. Until today, this blog had been restricted to about a group of about a dozen of my fellow […]

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Foreign blogs are blocked in China!

Hey guys, I just arrived in Korea and am settling into a cozy hostel in a college district. I’m super super tired after being out on Friday night until 3 am. And then getting up at 5:30am to pack and catch my early morning flight over here. As you can tell from the title, I […]

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Your Videos

Hey there, Thanks for putting in your info. Check your email inbox for your personal follow-up email from me. And here are your three free videos. Video #1: The Dramatic Direct Opener “Hey/Excuse me, I saw you [doing X-activity], and I wanted to come over to tell you… (pause) I think… (pause) you are… (pause […]

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How Important is Momentum in the Venue?

My first outing to the mega-clubs in Beijing during my most recent stint was supposed to be purely for reconnaissance. I wanted to scope out the dozens of clubs in the club district to find the target-rich environments and to just see what the social dynamics were like there. I wasn’t planning to do any […]

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David Wygant on why Day Game is Much Better than Club Game

I picked up Wygant’s David D. interview from Brian H. (thanks, dude), who has since gone on to become one of Wygan’ts mentees. I haven’t even finished the 2 CD interview yet, but damn, David Wygant is a breath of fresh air. He was the “inspiration” and consultant for the movie Hitch. I had checked […]

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The Game is out in Chinese

I stumbled onto a site that has the first six main chapters of The Game in Chinese, which was just published in May, 2007. http://www.douban.com/review/1160041/ So far there hasn’t been much of a reaction in the press. I think the Chinese probably consider this to be a purely American phenomenon and inapplicable to the Chinese […]

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Guys who focus on their level of pickup mastery may be sacrificing their happiness

Niels Hoven has just posted a short and super insightful blog entry on the whole pickup levels of mastery thing. I couldn’t have said it any better, especially this part: “Put a guy in front of me. I don’t care how hot the girls he’s shagging are. I don’t care how comfortable he is in […]

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No wonder I thought Hong Kong had great air

Just wandered onto this short report on HK’s cleaner air this year. Everyone kept telling me that HK was super polluted, but every day I was there, the air was as clean that in any big city in America I’ve ever been to. http://hkorbust.blogspot.com/2007/07/where-did-hong-kongs-smog-go.html Incidentally, while surfing on random China blogs, I discovered that a […]

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Simple Method for Discovering Your Purpose

Applying Stephen Covey’s principle of “Begin with the end in mind” to Ferriss’s book, I found these great, pithy questions near the end of his book that helped me focus on what I want to devote most of my time to in the next few years. Maybe they can help you, too: From Ferriss, The […]

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Know What You Want: “Do not go Past the Mark you Aimed for; In Victory, Learn when to Stop”

A few weeks ago, I finally got to see the DVD of “Devil Wears Prada.” Now, don’t ask me why I was so obsessed over finally getting to see it. Maybe it was because I had rented it in the US, but didn’t have the time to see it before the due date came up […]

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Why I am NOT a PUA

Hey guys, I thought I’d take a break and start in on some of the articles I’ve been putting off. One of them references a Sean Newman blog post, but I forgot which one, so I’m searching his blog at the moment. In the meantime, I stumbled onto a blog entry of his that was […]

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Asian Models

Hey guys, In case some of you Asian guys still aren’t into Asian girls b/c you think they resemble your sister, or you have issues forcing you to prove to yourself that you are a real man in Western society by getting a white girl, then check out the following site. http://female.thedailymodel.com and maybe you’ll […]

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Love and Pick-up: Do they go together?

Why is it that I increasingly find my own thoughts repeated more eloquently in Sean Newman’s blog? http://seanmessenger.com/2007/07/pickup-teaches-you-to-fear-love.html Happy Sunday, guys!

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Now what?

Holy frick! This is probably the best post I’ve ever read on a PUA blog. Worth repeated reads: http://realsocialdynamics.blogspot.com/2007/07/upcoming-article-ii.html

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On being a lover who is “Ethical”

I call myself an “ethical” lover for important reasons. 1) Practical: If my employer were ever to discover my blog and match it to my identity, I’d want them to know that I wasn’t doing anything illegal or sleazy or immoral. In fact, if anything, I am doing all this seduction stuff for the very […]

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Thank You!

Hey there, Thank you for subscribing to special announcements about events and coaching in East Asia and Southeast Asia. If you live in these parts, don’t be a stranger; write in. My team and I travel frequently all around Asia, so we may have a chance to meet up soon. If you’re in Singapore, we […]

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Realism and Goal-setting

Last week, I met a good college friend here in Toronto for burritos and a couple of pints of beer, always a good combination. He’s my age, with a wife and a little girl. He’s also a pastor of a mainline Protestant church in a Toronto suburb. Just to give you some background, he’s a […]

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First Ever Post

Hey guys, Welcome to this blog that I’ve been meaning to start for some time now. I’m starting this blog tonight because my head is bursting with thoughts that I absolutely need to express. I was going to continue writing a diary on my computer, but I thought a blog would be better b/c I […]

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Application Confirmation

Thank you very much for your application. There’s a confirmation email waiting for you in your email inbox. So just click on the link in that, and then you’re all set! Connect with you again real soon! Best, David.

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