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Mark Manson Interview with David Tian at Aura Dating Academy – “Inside the Players’ Lounge”

The latest interview in the “Inside the Players’ Lounge” series is with my good friend, Mark Manson, who has written some of the very BEST analyses of relationships and mating psychology. Many of his articles have gone seriously viral… and for very good reason. Just some of the things you’ll learn in this video include: […]

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Interview with Love Systems Dating Coach Vercetti by David Tian, Ph.D.: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 9

This past month, I’ve been lucky to have my friend, Daniel Vercetti visit me here in Singapore. He’s an actor by profession, raised in London and currently living in California… and is a genuine, caring individual who is a ton of fun to hang out with and discuss deep ideas with. And of course, he […]

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Speaking at the 21 Convention Melbourne 2012

I was invited to speak at the 21 Convention in Melbourne, Australia, by Anthony Johnson, the founder. I ordinarily turn down offers to speak at pick up conventions and summits because that’s not the direction I want to go, but I was impressed by how well-balanced and mature, ironically, the 21 Convention had become in […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Professor Norman Li of SMU (All Parts)

UPDATE: I’ve just uploaded the third and final segment of the interview with Norman Li! Scroll down to view it! Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Richard La Ruina (Gambler) of PUA Training: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 7, Parts 1-4

It was a real pleasure interviewing Richard when he visited Singapore and the Academy last month. I don’t like “pick up artists,” but although Richard directs a company called PUA Training, he’s entirely an upstanding guy, grounded and wholesome, and the sort of guy you’d be comfortable introducing to your mom or sister. Like some […]

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Singapore Dating Coach Dr. David Tian Interviews Future of Love Systems: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 6, Parts 4-5

Here are the remaining two parts to our super fun interview with Future (Thompson). Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 6, Parts 4-5 Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Future of Love Systems: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 6, Parts 1-3

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 6, Parts 1-3 Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., interviews Future (real name: Thompson), the most senior […]

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Dating Coach Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews DJ Fuji: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 5, Parts 1-5

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 5, Parts 1-5 Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., (Dr. Asian Rake) interviews another of the world’s […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 4

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 4 This final part of the Q&A in the interview addresses a problem endemic to Singaporean men, who often live at home with the parents until they reach the age of 35 or get married: * How to hook up with girls if you still live at home […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 4, Part 3

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 3: Interview with Singapore Lion Click here to see the first part of the interview. Some of the lessons you’ll learn in this Q&A part of the interview include… * How being “elite” in society can make a difference in attracting women and how you can benefit from […]

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Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 2

So begins the Q&A part of the interview. In this interview, Dr. David Tian chats with alumnus Lion, who first got coaching from David as an 18 yo., was raised and educated in elite settings in Singapore, went on to become director of multiple branches of a multinational financial firm, and is now taking his […]

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Singapore Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1

Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1: Interview with Lion This episode touches on a favorite topic of mine: That the qualities that many Asians mistakenly take to be “Asian thought” or “Asian culture” or “Asian philosophy” are actually not at all what elite Asians throughout history have believed or how they have behaved. […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 5/5

In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches, Bonsai of Love Systems. Bonsai grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai, Part 4

This part of the interview will be of special interest to those raised or living in Singapore. Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 3

Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 2

Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 1

“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 1, Part 3: Dr. David Tian Interviews Starlight from Love Systems

Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and Asian women. Here’s the third part of the 3-part interview with my good friend Starlight (Jesse) from Love Systems. You can find Part 1 […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 1, Part 2: Dr. David Tian Interviews Starlight from Love Systems

Inside the Players Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and Asian women. You can find Part 1 of the Inside the Players’ Lounge interview with Starlight here. In Part 2 of the interview, some […]

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Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 1, Part 1: Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews Starlight from Love Systems

Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and Asian women. Our first episode consists in an interview with Starlight from Love Systems. You can check out Starlight’s bio on the Love Systems […]

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