I’m planning to start a series of video blogs giving quick tips on dating, and considering how most of the attraction material available is for audiences in the West, I’m going to draw from my experiences in Singapore and Asia as examples.
This is my very first attempt, literally. I sat down in front of the flip cam several months ago, when I first had this idea, pressed “record” and just started talking. I figured if that approach worked for Gary Vaynerchuck, it might work for me… the jury’s still out. What do you think?
I’m hoping the production value will increase over time 😛
In this video, I explain the integral role of Willpower in getting better at anything hard, including getting better with women and social skills in general. I introduce the concept of Delayed Gratification as a good way of thinking about this. The famous Stanford study I cite is this one. My thoughts on this came from trying to figure out why some students got really good really fast, while others, receiving the exact same instruction and starting from basically the same level, took a longer time. There’s a lot more to say, but I thought I should keep it short for now as I figure out this whole video blogging medium.
And if you haven’t already, do check out the details on the upcoming Essentials of Dating program.
Evolving Beyond Pick Up: My 21 Convention Interview with Steve Mayeda
Life Coaching, Anthony Robbins, and How to Get Girls (My Interview with Dating Skills Review)
How to Create Attraction–The Right Way (Podcast Interview)
“The Secret Scientific Findings About Sex, Love, and Female Desire That Society Doesn’t Want You To Know” — My Capstone Lecture at SMU
Mark Manson Interview with David Tian at Aura Dating Academy – “Inside the Players’ Lounge”
The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Independent (Part 4)