Interviews with Hot Girls: Nick Sparks Demonstrates Talkative Sexual Vibe
July 20, 2011
Been swamped with meeting, coaching, lecturing, video editing, writing, tons of overseas travel almost every weekend for the past couple months, and most recently a kick-ass bootcamp this past weekend that saw clients flying in from LA and around Southeast Asia just for the weekend. And what a weekend it was!
I’ve got lots of great content in store for you, so to tie you over until I finish editing everything, enjoy this third video of my buddy Nick Sparks interviewing a hot girl.
This time it’s Stephanie, a fashion model, budding entrepreneur, and super sweet girl. As usual, Nick barely knew her before the video started rolling.
Enjoy this demonstration of a talkative vibe that is also very sexual, in a way similar to Russell Brand.
Btw, if you’re in the USA, you should seriously consider taking a bootcamp with Nick Sparks, Christian Hudson, and the team at The Social Man. They walk the talk, 100%.
How to be Funny and Sexy at the Same Time: Nick Sparks Demonstrates with Rachel
July 3, 2011
Another installment from “Interviews with Cute Girls” from The Social Man’s Nick Sparks and Christian Hudson. As usual, Nick just met this woman. Nick is a great example of fun, talkative, but sexual vibe.
You can catch Rachel in various roles on TV and musical theater. She’s fun with a quick wit.
Watch, learn, and be entertained.
I highly recommend you take coaching with The Social Man if you’re in the US. They’re amazing value.
Play on,
David
How to Talk to Girls and Turn Them on: Nick Sparks Demonstrates Talkative, Sexual Vibe
June 21, 2011
A while back, the man running The Social Man, Christian Hudson, had a great idea. From what he told me, he put out a Craigslist ad for girls who were willing to be interviewed for a dating site about their views on dating and men. Here is one of the results.
On the day of this video, Nick Sparks literally met this girl about five minutes before the camera started rolling. Despite the presence of the camera, the cameraman, the bright lights, and lack of incidental touch because of the separated chairs, Nick and Jennifer are kissing by the end of the 17th minute.
Very few guys are better exemplars of the Sexual Talkative Vibe than Nick Sparks. Maybe Russell Brand comes to mind. Check it out for yourself. There are more videos to come. Watch and learn 
If you are in North America, then I highly recommend you get coaching from Nick Sparks and Christian Hudson of The Social Man. I personally vouch for them. And for extra special treatment, tell them I sent you.
Best,
David
How to be Social: What to Think When You’re Approaching and Meeting New Women–The Attraction Mindset (video)
June 2, 2011
Want to get better with women but also avoid being one of those creepy pick up guys who brag about “pulling chicks” or getting numbers from girls at bars, bookstores, or city streets? Then you should cultivate the simple and easy ATTRACTION MINDSET. It also a great way to learn how to be social and the best mindset to have when you’re just trying to be social.
As usual, the video is only very lightly edited.
Credit to Sebastian Drake for giving me the correct focus many years ago.
The Attraction Mindset:
1. Have Fun
2. Make Others Have Fun
3. Make Connections and See If People Meet Your Standards
These 3 points should take up at least 90% of your mental processes when you’re out to meet new people. For more on this idea, check out my post on Outcome Independence and How to Have Fun.
How to be Social: Use the Litmus Test Opener (Singapore Dating Tips, Ep. #1)
November 22, 2010
Hey guys,
So here’s another videoblog I did, this time on an easy, but often overlooked, type of opener, the Litmus Test Opener. This kind of opener is not only great for helping you avoid getting waved away by socially immature people, they’re also a great way of warming up socially and practicing how to be social.
We welcome any feedback at all about how we can better serve you, so do write to us: admin “at” asianrake.com
Play on,
Asian Rake David
How Can Delayed Gratification & Willpower Help in Dating?
November 18, 2010
I’m planning to start a series of video blogs giving quick tips on dating, and considering how most of the attraction material available is for audiences in the West, I’m going to draw from my experiences in Singapore and Asia as examples.
This is my very first attempt, literally. I sat down in front of the flip cam several months ago, when I first had this idea, pressed “record” and just started talking. I figured if that approach worked for Gary Vaynerchuck, it might work for me… the jury’s still out. What do you think?
I’m hoping the production value will increase over time 
In this video, I explain the integral role of Willpower in getting better at anything hard, including getting better with women and social skills in general. I introduce the concept of Delayed Gratification as a good way of thinking about this. The famous Stanford study I cite is this one. My thoughts on this came from trying to figure out why some students got really good really fast, while others, receiving the exact same instruction and starting from basically the same level, took a longer time. There’s a lot more to say, but I thought I should keep it short for now as I figure out this whole video blogging medium.
Enjoy!
And if you haven’t already, do check out the details on the upcoming Essentials of Dating program.
Cheers, David
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