Dating Coach Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews DJ Fuji: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 5, Part 1
February 9, 2012
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 5, Part 1
Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., (Dr. Asian Rake) interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches: DJ Fuji (Darren).
Some of the lessons you’ll learn in this part of the interview include…
* How a very short Asian guy (5′4″ or 1.62 m) became one of the world’s most effective dating coaches
* How DJ Fuji (Darren) went from being an introverted computer geek who literally had girls fleeing from him to becoming a charming ladies’ man
* The real reasons why DJ Fuji quit his promising IT career to become a dating and life coach, and why Dr. David Tian quit his tenure-track professorship to lead other men to success in life and love
* Why DJ Fuji slept in his office every night for a year and how that helped him improve with women
* Why most guys who try to improve their dating skills end up quitting too soon, and how you can avoid this and stay motivated enough to succeed
DJ Fuji is a social arts instructor and life/lifestyle coach dedicated to changing the lives of his clients. You may have seen him on the Dr. Phil show, as the recipient of the “Best New Speaker” award at the Global PUA Summit in Hollywood, a keynote speaker at The 21 Convention in Orlando, or featured in the New York Times. His students are notorious for being virgins or among the toughest cases in the industry and yet with his help, they consistently break long dating dry spells and lose 30+ years of virginity within a very short period of time. Over the years, DJ Fuji has helped thousands of students transform their lives and expand their options with women, find girlfriends, and even get married. To learn more about DJ Fuji, check out: www.taoofdjfuji.com
Stay tuned for the next parts.
Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 4
February 7, 2012
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 4
This final part of the Q&A in the interview addresses a problem endemic to Singaporean men, who often live at home with the parents until they reach the age of 35 or get married:
* How to hook up with girls if you still live at home with your parents.
In this interview, Dr. David Tian chats with alumnus Lion, who first got coaching from David as an 18 yo., was raised and educated in elite settings in Singapore, went on to become director of multiple branches of a multinational financial firm, and is now taking his degree at Oxford University.
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
Click here to see the first part of this interview.
Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: “Inside the Players’ Lounge,” Episode 4, Part 3
February 6, 2012
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 3: Interview with Singapore Lion
Click here to see the first part of the interview.
Some of the lessons you’ll learn in this Q&A part of the interview include…
* How being “elite” in society can make a difference in attracting women and how you can benefit from this
* Why your “identity”–including the way you are around your friends and family–can profoundly affect how much you attract girls
* How you can convey your attractive identity to naturally draw women to you
* How you can easily start transforming your life for the better right away
In this interview, Dr. David Tian chats with alumnus Lion, who first got coaching from David as an 18 yo., was raised and educated in elite settings in Singapore, went on to become director of multiple branches of a multinational financial firm, and is now taking his degree at Oxford University.
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Singapore Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 2
January 29, 2012
So begins the Q&A part of the interview. In this interview, Dr. David Tian chats with alumnus Lion, who first got coaching from David as an 18 yo., was raised and educated in elite settings in Singapore, went on to become director of multiple branches of a multinational financial firm, and is now taking his degree at Oxford University.
Some of the lessons you’ll learn in this Q&A part of the interview include…
* Why a guy who seemingly “has it all” would still need coaching to master his dating and social life
* Why and how private mentors and coaches can skyrocket your skills, knowledge, and results
* How to handle approach anxiety like a pro
Click here to see the first part of this interview.
Click here to see the third part of this interview.
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
Singapore Dating Coach David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Alumnus Lion: Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1
January 24, 2012
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1: Interview with Lion
This episode touches on a favorite topic of mine: That the qualities that many Asians mistakenly take to be “Asian thought” or “Asian culture” or “Asian philosophy” are actually not at all what elite Asians throughout history have believed or how they have behaved.
In this interview, I chat with alumnus Lion, who first got coaching from me when he was just an 18 yo. He was raised and educated in elite settings in Singapore, went on to become director of multiple branches of a multinational financial firm, and is now taking his degree at Oxford University.
Some of the lessons you’ll learn in this interview include…
* The confessions of a young Singaporean man about how his elite upbringing and education enabled him to see the world differently from the average guy and how this helped him succeed in life
* The secret of Asian and Singapore elites in getting and staying ahead in society and why Confucius would agree with them
* How you can use this elite secret to succeed in life and love, especially in Asia
* Why losers think, “I really should do this but I”m not going to start until I can devote all my time to it,” why this is horrible thinking, and how winners approach life differently.
Click here to see the second part of this interview.
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
Don’t Make Me Wear This!
October 25, 2011
For the first time ever, my pal Christian Hudson of The Social Man will be visiting me (David Tian, aka., Dr. Asian Rake) in Singapore in mid-November.
As part of this special occasion, we will be holding a few joint events, including a free seminar on Tuesday, November 22 from 7-10 PM in a central location in Singapore. We’ll post more details about this special free seminar closer to the date.
To get yourself on the exclusive guest list for this free seminar with David Tian and Christian Hudson, use the form below to RSVP:
To help spread the word about these special events, Christian and I have a bet going. The guy who gets the most comments on the announcement blog post (including comments on our facebook fan page) wins. The loser will have to dress up like a major nerd, … like Steve Urkel. The winner gets to pick the loser’s outfit… So, help me make Christian wear this! Christian’s been building his mailing list many years longer than I have, and his market is much bigger, so the odds are definitely stacked against me. So… please leave a comment!
We’ll be videotaping the loser approaching strangers on a busy street in Singapore dressed in his nerdy outfit, and we’ll post it up for your enjoyment! We might even both end up having to do it 
Learn more about our bet on this interview we’ve recorded!
In the interview, we also each share one quick tip on dating, something you can use right now to get better results with women right away. I reveal my patented Mr. Bean technique for blasting approach anxiety and limiting self-talk. And Christian discusses his False Choice technique for influencing a girl to do something you want, e.g., meet you somewhere.
If you want to download the mp3 audio file of the interview, then click here.
Send this post to your friends. And remember to leave a comment! 
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 5/5
October 19, 2011
In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches, Bonsai of Love Systems.
Bonsai grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when it came to dating and relationships. Nowadays, he is a top dating coach traveling the world and living the life. When he is working with students, he is solely focused on getting them the results they want, whether that is dating multiple women, picking up exotic dancers, meeting women in the daytime, dating friends or acquaintances, or taking a girl home from a bar or club. To learn more about Bonsai, check out his blog: http://www.asiandatingcoach.com
Some of the many lessons you’ll learn in this interview include:
* What to do when she says, “Oh, I have a boyfriend.”
* How to get rid of your approach anxiety
* What to do when you keep trying to get better with women, but you’re not seeing results or progress
* How to approach shy Asian and Singaporean girls
* and much more…
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai, Part 4
October 14, 2011
This part of the interview will be of special interest to those raised or living in Singapore.
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches, Bonsai of Love Systems.
Bonsai grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when it came to dating and relationships. Nowadays, he is a top dating coach traveling the world and living the life. When he is working with students, he is solely focused on getting them the results they want, whether that is dating multiple women, picking up exotic dancers, meeting women in the daytime, dating friends or acquaintances, or taking a girl home from a bar or club. To learn more about Bonsai, click here. And check out Bonsai’s blog here.
Some of the many lessons you’ll learn include:
* How important is wealth–having lots of money, a luxury condo, or a flashy car–in attracting beautiful women in Singapore, and what to do to get girls if you don’t have all those things
* What you can do to get your Perfect 10 woman
* How learning the dating arts, when it comes to dating beautiful women, can put you ahead of rich guys or guys with higher social status
* Why most rich guys, high status guys, or guys surrounded by models because of their profession actually still need guys with “game” to help them get girls, and how YOU can benefit from this
… and much more
Your feedback is appreciated.
Cheers, David
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: David Tian, Ph.D., Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 3
October 13, 2011
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches, Bonsai of Love Systems.
Bonsai grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when it came to dating and relationships. Nowadays, he is a top dating coach traveling the world and living the life. When he is working with students, he is solely focused on getting them the results they want, whether that is dating multiple women, picking up exotic dancers, meeting women in the daytime, dating friends or acquaintances, or taking a girl home from a bar or club. To learn more about Bonsai, click here. And check out Bonsai’s blog here.
This part of the interview will be of special interest to those raised or living in Singapore.
Some of the many lessons you’ll learn include:
* What to do about your dating and sex life if you still live at home with mom and dad
* The exact steps for taking your girl back to your bedroom or hotel using smooth transitions
* The one essential factor to getting your girl to go home with you… mess up this one thing, and your chances with her on that date go down the drain
* How Asian men can develop their sexual confidence even if they’re still virgins
… and much more
Feedback is always appreciated.
Cheers, David
Inside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 3: Dr. Asian Rake David Interviews Asian Dating Coach Bonsai of Love Systems, Part 2
October 13, 2011
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches, Bonsai of Love Systems.
Bonsai grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when it came to dating and relationships. Nowadays, he is a top dating coach traveling the world and living the life. When he is working with students, he is solely focused on getting them the results they want, whether that is dating multiple women, picking up exotic dancers, meeting women in the daytime, dating friends or acquaintances, or taking a girl home from a bar or club. To learn more about Bonsai, click here. And check out Bonsai’s blog here.
This part of the interview will be of special interest to you if you’re an Asian guy raised or living in the West.
Some of the many lessons you’ll learn include:
* How a short Asian guy can date beautiful white models and the exact steps for how YOU can do the same
* What to do if you’re an Asian guy trying to compete with tall, good-looking white guys
* How to get her number in a way that will ensure she’ll asking to meet up with you again
* How to overcome your limiting beliefs when it comes to dating gorgeous girls
… and much more
“Inside the Players’ Lounge” is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women.
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