Gorgeous Girl on the Streets of Singapore from Meet to Date to Bedroom in Just Two Hours: Client Report (LR)
July 27, 2011
This report comes from a current member of Aura Dating Academy who is in the second of four levels. I chose to feature this one because the writing is good enough that I only need to do very light editing. He goes by the handle, “Singapore souL.” Despite being in his very early twenties, he’s made over his style and image to appear a very dapper and classy guy. And it really paid off here. Enjoy reading!
The usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
I’ve replaced all real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. Respect their privacy.
Gorgeous Girl on the Streets of Singapore from Meet to Date to Intimacy in under Three Hours: Client Report (LR)
Total contact time: 2 hours
Keys to the bedroom:
-Spotting escalation windows
-Having an outcome independent mindset (especially at the end)
-Being persistent (mutually supported by the outcome independent mindset)
I was on the way to meet a friend of mine and was coming from work. We had actually planned to meet up for dinner before my dance lesson in town. I was walking on a major downtown street. It was an open area, and I was keeping my eyes peeled out for anyone. In the distance, I saw a gorgeous girl with the smoothest of legs. A leggy beauty. She was walking rather hurriedly though. Read more
Beautiful Office Girl from Daytime Dating on Singapore’s Orchard Road: Student Report (LR)
November 25, 2010
Alumni from past programs send me updates from time to time, and I love getting them. I consider past clients part of one big extended family. I’m used to getting formal reports from our extensive follow-up program. But the most successful guys, who are also the most dedicated, keep sending me reports well past the 10-week mark. And I’m more than happy to read along and comment when I can.
In fact, just as any good teacher can attest, the teacher ends up learning just as much from the students.
Between 2007-08, I published over a dozen very long LRs myself (the community gives them the unfortunate label of ‘lay report’), partly to track my progress and partly to establish legitimacy and a track record in the international attraction community (something that no other guy in Singapore has done yet, btw).
But I never asked for consent from anyone in posting them, and now that my identity is public, I have to consider the feelings of those involved. Here’s my official statement on why I no longer post personal LRs.
Many of the reports also reflected my former, much less mature perspective on male-female relationships and evinced a lot of the bravado of a newly minted gangster or the excitement of a youngster who has suddenly discovered the keys to the candy store:
‘Yeah’, says a Singapore-accented Sly Stallone voice, ‘Me and my crew just pulled 5 chicks from da club. We are the best playas! Booyah!’ LOL. I don’t think I was ever quite that bad.
Nevertheless, I think such reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of the men who have already made it. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others.
In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
I’m going to start off with reports (LRs) from two different ex-clients.
This first one is from Darren L., who had completed his long-term coaching program in 2008. The report is from a few months ago.
As a university professor in the humanities, I couldn’t help but edit their writing for grammar and clarity. I do hope, however, that their unique voices still come through.
They’ve both gotten permission from the girls involved to share these reports. I’ve edited it so that the terminology is more consistent and have replaced all the real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
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Student Report (LR): Beautiful Office Woman from Daytime Dating on Singapore’s Orchard Road
By Darren L.
Keys to the Bedroom:
-Going with the classic Genuine Interest Direct opener and the 3-minute number close. Never fails.
-Letting the girl lead when it’s advancing the relationship
-Increasing Investment, getting her to invest equal or more time and effort into the interaction than I was, especially in the bedroom
-Smooth escalation through massage
Total Interaction Time: 4 hours
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Top 5 Tips for Singaporean Men Who Want to Attract Beautiful Women
August 22, 2010
The premier news channel in Singapore, Channel News Asia, asked me to put together a list of the top five tips for Singaporean men who want to attract beautiful Singaporean women. You can find my article here!
Unfortunately, it seems the formatting was all lost in the conversion, so all the bold text is gone, but I’m sure you can figure it out. Check it out here for yourself!
Would love to hear your thoughts. You can contact me at: david@asianrake.com
Cheers!
Day Game Tip: Avoid Instadates; Meet in the Evening
September 6, 2009
A month ago, I had the pleasure of hanging out with Jeremy Soul, the Love Systems Day Game Specialist, for several days. Considering Love System’s reputation for relying on canned routines and overly complicated theories, I was glad to find that we agreed on a lot of points, especially in regard to direct, natural game. It was also refreshing to see this in what Mr. M of Love Systems was teaching. I believe that some of this commonality can be traced back to the inter-continental influence of Sebastian Drake 
One important point that Jeremy and I both advocated in daytime interactions is efficiency and not wasting time with insta-dates. He’s finally gotten around to writing this article elucidating why the common community advice of going on insta-dates can actually be counterproductive. My experience has also been the same. It’s encouraging and validating to see that another Day Game specialist agrees. The community owes him a big “thanks” for getting this out there. Jeremy does a great job explaining this:
Don’t Waste Your Time With Instant Dates
I am going to disagree with conventional wisdom on Day Game here and say that I am against instant dates. An instant date is where you go for a coffee or some kind of mini-date with a woman immediately after having met her in the daytime.
Traditionally, a lot of guys that practice Day Game advocate going on instant dates with women. It’s said that they progress the interaction, build comfort and reduce flakiness.
Indeed, I used to be one of the guys that advocated insta-dating girls. But everything evolves and over time I’ve discovered instant dates to be less efficient than setting up dates for later on, preferably in the evening that night or if not, an evening within the next few days.
When you meet a woman during the daytime, chances are you won’t be able to get physically intimate with her until nightfall. Part of this is down to simple logistics: she is most likely in the middle of errands, on her break from work, or in between meetings. You may well be busy too. For most people, the evening is when they have the majority of their downtime, when it’s likely they’d be able to spend a couple of hours getting intimate with you.
Part of this is down to the psychology of sex. People associate nightfall with intimacy. Therefore if you are going to spend time with a woman with the possibility of sleeping with her, you should arrange for that time to be in the evening.
The final reason is that women like the element of mystery, the feeling of not knowing exactly what is going to happen. If you spend a couple of hours with a woman in the afternoon, taking a long walk though the park or chatting over coffee for a couple of hours, a lot of that mystery is gone. Suddenly, she knows a lot about you and you’ve become that “really interesting guy she spent an afternoon chatting with” instead of the guy she met up with in the evening and went home with.
Of course there are always going to be exceptions to this. It certainly is possible to meet a woman in the middle of the afternoon and get her home before it’s nightfall. It’s also possible to go on instant dates that last until nightfall and then take the woman home. But these are exceptions rather than the rule.
In most cases, your best bet for securing a solid date and for not wasting your time is to build a connection based on Attraction and Qualification (see the Love Systems Triad if you don’t know what these are) for about 5 minutes and then set up a date for an evening sometime soon (ideally that night).
I don’t think instant dates should never be tried. They’re certainly good for showing you what’s possible: that you can go on a random date with a woman you’ve just met in the middle of the day. But instant dates should be a feather in your cap rather than the arrows in your quiver.
This is probably going to be a controversial post and I’m sure there will be those that disagree with me. I think continual experimentation is important to develop any skill, so I invite you to experiment: if you have never tried instant dates, try going on a few, and if you usually do a lot of them, try avoiding them completely. See what happens.
Credit to the Asian Rake for encouraging me to write this article. I recently met him in Singapore and after talking about day game, it became clear that we shared some similar views. David – I hope to see you next time I am in Singapore.
Jeremy Soul
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