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Check out this brand new interview with Angel Donovan at Dating Skills Review on the lessons in The Desire System video course, especially emotional contagion. Scientific research clearly demonstrates the potential power our emotions have over others. It shows that emotions can indeed be contagious. In this interview, we explore this theme, some of the […]
Continue readingThis is Part 6 and the last part in this section. To read from Part 1 of this section on being adventurous and easygoing, click here. To read the Introduction to the Manifesto, click here. How to Have It All Now you want to know how you can do this, how you can have it […]
Continue readingThis is Part 5 in the series. To read from Part 1 of this section on being adventurous and easygoing, click here. To read the Introduction to the Manifesto, click here. Easygoing: Becoming Cool, and the Difference between Assertiveness and Aggressiveness Paradoxically, being adventurous and being easygoing go hand-in-hand. Because you are laid-back and don’t […]
Continue readingThis is Part 4 in a series. To read from Part 1 of this section on being adventurous and easygoing, click here. To read the Introduction to the Manifesto, click here. Overcoming Fear Often, adventure isn’t adventurous without some element of risk and fear. To become an adventurous person, you’ve got to get used to […]
Continue readingBecoming Adventurous In a poignant scene of the Martin Scorsese film, Hugo, the main character–an orphaned boy–remarked that he wanted to do something, to which the female lead–his “love” interest–replied, “No, it’s too dangerous. We could get into trouble.” To this the heroic boy replied, That’s how we know it’s an adventure! To have an […]
Continue readingDeveloping Independence and Eliminating Approval-Seeking Behaviour The next installment in our Manifesto series! To read from the Introduction, click here. To read from the start of the this section on being Adventurous and Easygoing, click here. So you grew up with strict, demanding parents and ended up with an approval-seeking personality, especially from women. You’re […]
Continue readingThe sexually attractive man–no matter his race–is a leader, assertive, sexual, and adventurous and easy going. Now let’s look in more detail at the last two traits: Adventurous and Easygoing. For the Introduction to this series, click here. For the first part of the series, which was on Leadership, click here. We know that women […]
Continue readingFor the introduction to the series on being a Sexually Attractive Asian Man, click here. For Part 1 of “Leadership” in this series, click here. Onto Part 2 of “Leadership”: Now let’s be clearer and examine actual real-life examples of such elite, sexually attractive Asian men. Let’s look at history first, because by the time […]
Continue readingIn the Introduction, I stated that an attractive, sexually successful Asian male is assertive, adventurous and easy going. He is also highly sexual, and perhaps foremost, the sexually attractive Asian male is a leader. To see the Introduction, click here. From talking to countless Singaporeans about this, I’ve discovered that some in Singapore think being […]
Continue readingThe Asian man is a bit of an underdog in the modern dating world. While he possesses many qualities that might help him to be a good husband, these qualities are often overlooked by women who are initially looking for hot dating material, not husbands. You, as an Asian man, need to understand the feelings […]
Continue readingLet’s face it. Guys in Singapore tend to be skinnier than the world average. This is consistent with the rest of the Southeast Asian area, so it wasn’t all that noticeable until recently with the sharp influx of imported, foreign professionals and executives, many from Western countries. While being skinnier is not necessarily a bad […]
Continue readingInside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 6, Parts 1-3 Inside the Players’ Lounge is a series of interviews of top dating coaches and social artists who are Asian, are based in Asia, or have a deep interest in Asia and its women. In this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., interviews Future (real name: Thompson), the most senior […]
Continue readingInside the Players’ Lounge, Episode 4, Part 1: Interview with Lion This episode touches on a favorite topic of mine: That the qualities that many Asians mistakenly take to be “Asian thought” or “Asian culture” or “Asian philosophy” are actually not at all what elite Asians throughout history have believed or how they have behaved. […]
Continue readingIn this episode, David Tian, Ph.D., Executive Director of Aura Dating Academy in Singapore, interviews another of the world’s top Asian dating coaches, Bonsai of Love Systems. Bonsai grew up in The Netherlands but had a strict Asian upbringing. He was exposed to both Asian and Western values, causing him to have conflicting beliefs when […]
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