Jakarta Dating: 5 Women with 1 Man and Client’s 1-Minute Pull–Approach Coach Lt. Walker’s Report on Recent Aura Dating Academy Overseas Trip (Alumni LR)
December 26, 2011
This crazy report comes from Lt. Walker, a young Singaporean of Indian descent and Asia’s top approach coach. To learn more about him, you can catch Lt. Walker’s interview on Inside the Players’ Lounge here.
He has been leading Aura Dating Academy Overseas Trips and this is his report from the first trip, which was to Jakarta in early December. You’re in for a real treat!
Usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts. I’ve replaced all real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered. None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. Respect their privacy.
Without further ado… Lt. Walker!
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Jakarta. I’ve travelled nearly all of asia now and Jakarta is no doubt the craziest I’ve been to in terms of the party scene. Where else do you find 24 hour clubs?
However, the primary reason for going to Jakarta this time was for non-dating-related work, but I decided to squeeze in an Aura Academy Overseas Trip with Echow, Takeshi and Mojo, with PlayerP joining us on a later late.
The last time I was at Jakarta we ripped it apart, and I was more than eager to show the guys a great weekend. Read more
Singapore’s Best Dating Blogs by Aura Academy Members
November 30, 2011
Some Aura Academy members have started their own blogs! And I highly recommend you check them out, not only as a way of seeing how some of our current members are progressing and what they’re thinking and doing but also to get amazingly insightful perspectives by local Singaporeans on meeting, attracting, and succeeding with women in Singapore.
All of the blogs feature reflections on dating strategies and techniques, the journey of improving with women, female psychology, and practical field reports. All three are very good with girls, of course, but let me tell you a bit more about each.
The Sperms and Omelette blog is by zuLsouL, currently the Academy membership’s top daytime dating specialist and an incredibly lucid writer. Reading his views on some of the latest dating arts teachings have helped refine my own lessons. zuLsouL has made huge improvements. I still remember the first day he entered one of my classes–looking, moving, and speaking very awkwardly. Now he’s a very smooth operator with a classy image from head to toe.
The Socially Attractive Asian blog is by Ry Aurjandro, the first Aura member to graduate to Ambassador level, the third of four levels in the Academy. Ry has been a tremendous source of strength, motivation, and inspiration for myself and many of the other Aura members. Both he and zuLsouL are still in their very early twenties. And they were both virgins when they joined the Academy several months ago, which you’d find very hard to believe if you met them now. Having successfully battled cancer as a teenager, Ry has the inner resolve and willpower to accomplish many great things. He conquered his crippling approach anxiety after a couple Rockstar Nights and is now the Aura member that other Aura members look to the most in helping them meet and attract women. He’s also amassed an impressive track record of results with women.
Echelon’s Discovering Women blog features the reflections of a sharp, critical mind. He analyzes dating techniques and teachings in a methodical manner. And he supplements his reflections with a good deal of additional research from academic fields that many readers will find helpful. He’s also written some helpful posts on what to expect in the higher levels of the Academy. He too was one of the fastest to progress through the Academy levels.
I’ve listed Aura members’ blogs in the sidebar, so go ahead and click on those links on a regular basis to check out what they are up to and leave comments. I’ll be adding more links as more Aura members begin blogging as well.
Cheers, David
Beautiful Bikini Babe in Pool in Malaysia: Client Report (LR)
November 19, 2011
This report is by a graduate of an Attraction Accelerated Weekend Workshop. He goes by the handle, Pyroman. He’s an Asian-American studying and working in Asia.
He benefited tremendously from the extensive follow-up coaching that comes complimentary with all Weekend Workshops and has developed impressive skills with women. Check out his report here for a taste of it.
If you want to accelerate your dating and love life by learning more in just one weekend than most men learn in their entire lifetimes, then you should definitely take one of our Weekend Workshops.
And you’re really in luck this month because for the first and only time ever, you can have the opportunity to train directly and personally with both myself (David Tian) and Christian Hudson–the head of The Social Man and one of the most experienced and effective dating coaches in the world–right here in Singapore. This special 3-day weekend bootcamp will be held on November 25-27. There are only a couple spots left, so if you’re interested, you can read more about the jointly led bootcamp here, and apply using the form on that webpage.
I’ve become completely booked with other coaching programs and sessions and won’t have time to offer another Weekend Workshop until March 2012. So snap up one of the remaining spots for the last bootcamp of the year.
In this report, you’ll read about this lady’s platonic relationship with her orbiter–a guy friend who keeps going around and around “the planet” but never “lands.” He buys her gifts and “takes care” of her. He even takes her on all-expenses paid vacations hoping to get some action, but instead ends up having to sleep in the bathtub every night. I pity that fool. Don’t be that guy. Learn how attraction works and how you can make beautiful women attracted to you and not just treat you as a platonic, non-sexual friend.
Usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
I’ve replaced all real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. Respect their privacy.
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Keys to the Bedroom:
* Understanding attraction and social dynamics–identifying her signs of attraction and correctly reading her relationship with the orbiter
* Spotting escalation windows and taking them
* Being easygoing whenever obstacles appeared and not being fazed by them
Total contact time: ~2 hours, 45 minutes
Singapore Girls, the Princess, and the Hot Executive Lady: Client Report (LR)
November 14, 2011
This one comes from Will, who took an Attraction Accelerated Weekend Workshop with me some months ago. He is an overseas Chinese who flew in from China and was an avid follower of my teachings before taking the workshop. This is his recounting of how he hooked up with his Singaporean Princess on the second night of the workshop.
If you’re thinking about taking a Weekend Workshop, you’re in luck because for the first (and probably only) time, I’ll be teaming up with Christian Hudson to jointly lead a Special 3-day Weekend Workshop in Singapore. It’s on November 25-27. There are only a couple spots left, so if you’re interested, you can read more about the jointly led bootcamp here, and apply using the form on that webpage.
I’m fully booked with other coaching programs and sessions afterwards and won’t have time to offer another Weekend Workshop until March 2012. So snap up one of the remaining spots for the final bootcamp of the year this November.
The usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
I’ve replaced all real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. Respect their privacy.
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LR: Singapore Girls, The Princess, and the Hot Executive
What an amazing weekend! I must thank Asian Rake David (Dr. David Tian) for transforming my life. The entire experience that weekend was an eye-opener and my life hasn’t been the same since.
Keys to the Bedroom:
-Solid Attraction Mindset (“having fun”)
-Sexual State Projection
-Stream of Consciousness verbal technique
Total Time to Intimacy: Under 1 hour
Interestingly, all of the keys to success here involved patented techniques I learned from Asian Rake David.
It was the second night of our bootcamp, and David was taking us to a party event in one of the mega-clubs. But before that, we met up at a smaller bar, which we used as a warm-up spot. The place was crawling with fashion models. Read more
Gorgeous Girl on the Streets of Singapore from Meet to Date to Bedroom in Just Two Hours: Client Report (LR)
July 27, 2011
This report comes from a current member of Aura Dating Academy who is in the second of four levels. I chose to feature this one because the writing is good enough that I only need to do very light editing. He goes by the handle, “Singapore souL.” Despite being in his very early twenties, he’s made over his style and image to appear a very dapper and classy guy. And it really paid off here. Enjoy reading!
The usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
I’ve replaced all real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. Respect their privacy.
Gorgeous Girl on the Streets of Singapore from Meet to Date to Intimacy in under Three Hours: Client Report (LR)
Total contact time: 2 hours
Keys to the bedroom:
-Spotting escalation windows
-Having an outcome independent mindset (especially at the end)
-Being persistent (mutually supported by the outcome independent mindset)
I was on the way to meet a friend of mine and was coming from work. We had actually planned to meet up for dinner before my dance lesson in town. I was walking on a major downtown street. It was an open area, and I was keeping my eyes peeled out for anyone. In the distance, I saw a gorgeous girl with the smoothest of legs. A leggy beauty. She was walking rather hurriedly though. Read more
Singapore Girls Pick Up & the 13-Minute Seduction: Breakthrough in Chill Vibe (Client Report LR)
May 3, 2011
SINGAPORE GIRLS APPROACHED ME & THE 13-MINUTE SEDUCTION: BREAKTHROUGH IN CHILL VIBE, CLIENT REPORT (LR)
This is another relatively unusual report. I like to share the special ones for a reason. As you read on, you’ll see what makes this one so different.
Just to reiterate the usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
We’ve gotten permission to share these reports from the girl involved. I’ve edited it so that the terminology is more consistent and have replaced all the real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies make it a policy to use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. I respect their privacy.
This report comes from Peter, an early 30s professional in Singapore. He’s a very busy man, so he narrated this to me, and I recorded it to transcribe later. Enjoy!
My Breakthrough in Chill Vibe, Having Girls Approach ME, and the 13-Minute Seduction
I’m not entirely sure how I finally made the switch to becoming the type of guy who has girls approaching him.
Just half a year ago, I was one of the biggest geeks I knew. I wore pocket protectors so I could carry a small calculator and pens around with me. Things have really changed since then.
Keys to the Bedroom
-Social proof from female friends
-Attraction from multiple women in the venue
-Reading and responding to her arousal cues
-Figuring out Chill Vibe (sexy fashion & image/having fun chilling/strong body language, eye contact, and tonality)
After almost five months of coaching with Dr. Asian Rake David, I went from having had only three sexual partners in my entire life of 30+ years to having tripled that number in a few months. But this encounter was a major breakthrough.
Read more
Japanese Babe in Singapore in Orchard Road Restaurant: Client Report (LR)
February 10, 2011
This unusual report comes from a Platinum Program client in Singapore. We had been working together for a few months by this point, and he had already gotten great results, having hooked up with several women and holding open relationships with three of them. He had also spent wild weekends in Bangkok and Kuala Lumpur really pushing his edge, doing crazy openers and seeing how fast he could escalate. The considerable experience he garnered during those few months really shows itself here.
As usual, we got permission from the girl to post this version of the report. Some identifying details have been altered for privacy. Note: The pics were chosen and sent to me by the client. In case it’s not obvious, these are not photos of the real women involved (otherwise, there wouldn’t be much point in trying to protect their privacy, would there?). And just for future reference, unless stated otherwise, none of the photos on this site are of the actual women involved in the reports. This policy is to protect their privacy.
Also, as usual, I took the liberty of editing for style and grammar.
I trust that you’ll learn some things from this one 
Enjoy!
Japanese Babe in Singapore in Orchard Road Restaurant: Client Report (LR)
I think I could only have pulled this off after having had lots of experience pushing the edge of my comfort zone. It’s just like Doc Rake (Asian Rake David) used to shout at me when I was starting out, “This is supposed to feel uncomfortable! You’re not supposed to know exactly what to do or what’s going to happen! That’s how you know you’re outside your comfort zone, dude.”
I’m really glad I got to meet this girl, as she’s stayed a good friend ever since.
Keys to the Bedroom:
-Novel approach to the contact close
-Patient persistence
-Changing strategies when usual plan wasn’t working
-Using jealousy
On a Friday evening, I was having dinner with one of my buddies at a pizza restaurant on Orchard Road. We had just gotten seated and placed our orders.
Then I spotted her: a gorgeous girl with a glowing complexion and skin, alluring eyes, and long, black hair. She looked Japanese. She was sitting in a booth with another girl friend next to her and two guys across from them. They weren’t acting like couples.
But this was a sit-down family restaurant. Not exactly the kind of place that you can do a lot of approaches. Read more
Beautiful Office Girl from Daytime Dating on Singapore’s Orchard Road: Student Report (LR)
November 25, 2010
Alumni from past programs send me updates from time to time, and I love getting them. I consider past clients part of one big extended family. I’m used to getting formal reports from our extensive follow-up program. But the most successful guys, who are also the most dedicated, keep sending me reports well past the 10-week mark. And I’m more than happy to read along and comment when I can.
In fact, just as any good teacher can attest, the teacher ends up learning just as much from the students.
Between 2007-08, I published over a dozen very long LRs myself (the community gives them the unfortunate label of ‘lay report’), partly to track my progress and partly to establish legitimacy and a track record in the international attraction community (something that no other guy in Singapore has done yet, btw).
But I never asked for consent from anyone in posting them, and now that my identity is public, I have to consider the feelings of those involved. Here’s my official statement on why I no longer post personal LRs.
Many of the reports also reflected my former, much less mature perspective on male-female relationships and evinced a lot of the bravado of a newly minted gangster or the excitement of a youngster who has suddenly discovered the keys to the candy store:
‘Yeah’, says a Singapore-accented Sly Stallone voice, ‘Me and my crew just pulled 5 chicks from da club. We are the best playas! Booyah!’ LOL. I don’t think I was ever quite that bad.
Nevertheless, I think such reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of the men who have already made it. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others.
In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts.
I’m going to start off with reports (LRs) from two different ex-clients.
This first one is from Darren L., who had completed his long-term coaching program in 2008. The report is from a few months ago.
As a university professor in the humanities, I couldn’t help but edit their writing for grammar and clarity. I do hope, however, that their unique voices still come through.
They’ve both gotten permission from the girls involved to share these reports. I’ve edited it so that the terminology is more consistent and have replaced all the real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered.
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Student Report (LR): Beautiful Office Woman from Daytime Dating on Singapore’s Orchard Road
By Darren L.
Keys to the Bedroom:
-Going with the classic Genuine Interest Direct opener and the 3-minute number close. Never fails.
-Letting the girl lead when it’s advancing the relationship
-Increasing Investment, getting her to invest equal or more time and effort into the interaction than I was, especially in the bedroom
-Smooth escalation through massage
Total Interaction Time: 4 hours
Read more
My Policy on LRs
January 6, 2009
Was just alerted by a friendly reader that my old post on “My Policy on LRs” had disappeared. It must have happened when we transitioned to the new site.
So I’m writing a new one.
Because my real name and photo are now linked to my online handle, I will do my best to protect the identities of my lovers, friends, and family members. This includes past relationships, as well.
However, one of my original goals in starting a blog was to educate people in how to attract women, and one of my main tools for doing so was the LR, for which my blog gained a considerable following.
You can find my old LRs under the “Adventures” category. I’ve left a few of them intact as there is almost no chance that the identities of the people involved can be traced.
Since I’ve come out with my personal identity, I will no longer write LRs online. This was a hard choice because I love writing these. They force me to reflect on what I did right or wrong and were crucial in my own development in the social arts.
From time to time, though, I will write LRs whose educational benefits outweigh the marginal chance that the identities of those involved can be traced. My frequent travel schedule aids my efforts at anonymity. I may change a few irrelevant details to protect the identities of the participants.
These anonymous LRs will not be posted online but may be sent to those on my mailing list or posted in a private forum for exclusive members. To get access, enter your name and email in the fields at the top right corner of this site. I don’t send pesky newsletters as I hate junk mail and spam as much as the next guy. So rest assured that you will only receive important announcements, cutting edge dating tips, and exclusive access to special content, and you can always opt out at any time.
Play on, Dr. Asian Rake.
Nick Sparks and Christian Hudson are the real deal
July 16, 2008
I’ve been delinquent with the updates as not only have I been guest instructing on a weekend bootcamp, including instruction on Saturday until the wee wee hours of the morning (we aren’t kidding when we say we put our clients first), but I’ve also been visiting my little sister who lives here in the Big Apple.
I just spent a very pleasant evening with her and her friends watching the New York Philharmonic and Lang Lang (the 26 yo. Chinese genius pianist) rock it on the Lawn in Central Park for a couple of hours, finishing everything off after the encore with a spectacular fireworks show! At first, New York kind of weighs on you with the constant smell of garbage on the sidewalks, the overpoweringly tall buildings casting long shadows over the narrow streets, the wave after wave of fast-walking pedestrians battling it out for space on the sidewalks with construction sites, dogs, and hotdog vendors. But after a while, you get used to all that (again), and your senses are dulled to those distractions, enabling you to take in the many many things that make New York a world-class city like no other. Of course, it helps if you’re listening to a live performance by Lang Lang and the NY Philharmonic while lying on the grass sipping wine by candlelight, surrounded by hundred year old trees.
But before I get completely distracted by reminiscences of delightful evenings in New York, let me get to my original point.
This weekend was my first time actually going out on the town with Nick Sparks. And I do have to say, he lives up to the hype. Out of all the PUAs and gurus I’ve ever met in person or seen on any product, Nick stands out with his quick wit, infectious humor, and amazingly feel good vibe. He’s got the feel of a natural who can also analyze social dynamics. How do you make a girl scowl, laugh, punch you, hug you, and kiss you, all within the first minutes of meeting? Ask Nick Sparks.
Even I learned a thing or two while watching him attract girls left and right with effortless ease. Check him out here: http://www.thesocialman.com/people/nick.php
And then of course, I had the opportunity to once again learn from the man who started me on this whole journey, the doyen of The Social Man, the leader who manages such crazy personalities as myself, Nick, Stephen Nash, DJ, and many many others. And the man who has seen it all.
We often talk on skype from opposite sides of the globe. But we rarely have the chance to go out together. So it was good to see just how versatile this man can be. He can do routine stacks and canned material. But he can also go “natural,” in the moment, in the flow. I saw him make an emotional connection with a hot girl while talking with her about particle physics on a Friday night! If you don’t yet know who Christian Hudson is, … where in the world have you been? Check him out here: http://www.thesocialman.com/people/christian.php
I think it would be very dangerous if all three of us actually lived in the same city.
Lots of great updates coming soon…
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
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