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Holy Crap! I swear to god that I had not read this JCH’s blog article before writing my own. http://blog.masterthevibe.com/?p=14
Uncanny.
Holy Crap! I swear to god that I had not read this JCH’s blog article before writing my own. http://blog.masterthevibe.com/?p=14
Uncanny.
“So if you’re indeed having fun, you cannot be thinking about whether you’re having fun.”
I’m so glad you wrote this, because it describes exactly what a lot of people, including myself, have been going through and proposes a simple solution (do what you normally do when you are having fun).
“So if you’re indeed having fun, you cannot be thinking about whether you’re having fun.”
I’m so glad you wrote this, because it describes exactly what a lot of people, including myself, have been going through and proposes a simple solution (do what you normally do when you are having fun).
This is a solid gold post. Im saving it to read over again later.
I also agree that Think and grow Rich a great guide, should be used as a bible!
Skills
http://www.skills.iblog.co.za
This is a solid gold post. Im saving it to read over again later.
I also agree that Think and grow Rich a great guide, should be used as a bible!
Skills
http://www.skills.iblog.co.za
Awesome field report - almost makes me want to visit China in the coming months.
Awesome field report - almost makes me want to visit China in the coming months.
You’re welcome to come party with us, dude! Give me a shout if you make it over here.
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
You’re welcome to come party with us, dude! Give me a shout if you make it over here.
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
Hey Skills,
Thanks, man! I’m flattered.
I use Hill’s affirmations (self-suggestion) every day, and it’s done wonders.
I like your blog, too!
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
Hey Skills,
Thanks, man! I’m flattered.
I use Hill’s affirmations (self-suggestion) every day, and it’s done wonders.
I like your blog, too!
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
best post i’ve read this year. Simple and to the point.
I guess its because i’m at the stage where i’m trying to qualify more. I end up over fluffing. lol.
Thanks for the post, sir AsianRake;)
best post i’ve read this year. Simple and to the point.
I guess its because i’m at the stage where i’m trying to qualify more. I end up over fluffing. lol.
Thanks for the post, sir AsianRake;)
Hey Thoseguns,
Wow, thanks for the compliment. It started off a lot longer, but my editing skills are getting better.
It’s a fine line between qualifying and rapport-seeking. The key is the mindset, a true screening frame and having standards that are truly important to you.
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
Hey Thoseguns,
Wow, thanks for the compliment. It started off a lot longer, but my editing skills are getting better.
It’s a fine line between qualifying and rapport-seeking. The key is the mindset, a true screening frame and having standards that are truly important to you.
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
This was the post I’ve been waiting for. I Love it! I’ve been pondering about Attainability for awhile and all of a sudden you post it. You made S&Q so easy to use. It motivated me to really work on it and perfect it. It’s funny that you wrote about the ‘Shock and Awe’. People use it, but had no success yet.
As always thanks,
This was the post I’ve been waiting for. I Love it! I’ve been pondering about Attainability for awhile and all of a sudden you post it. You made S&Q so easy to use. It motivated me to really work on it and perfect it. It’s funny that you wrote about the ‘Shock and Awe’. People use it, but had no success yet.
As always thanks,
Wow, thanks, anonymous!
I find it funny that people haven’t had success with “shock and awe.” To be honest, lots of PUAs I know and naturals have been doing this for a long time. It’s just that Ciaran was the first to write such a clear description of how to do it and what’s going on. It really relies a lot on having the correct mindset, which is to say, strong (and morally good, as Ciaran pointed out) inner game. And it’s a hallmark of natural game in the bars and clubs.
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
Wow, thanks, anonymous!
I find it funny that people haven’t had success with “shock and awe.” To be honest, lots of PUAs I know and naturals have been doing this for a long time. It’s just that Ciaran was the first to write such a clear description of how to do it and what’s going on. It really relies a lot on having the correct mindset, which is to say, strong (and morally good, as Ciaran pointed out) inner game. And it’s a hallmark of natural game in the bars and clubs.
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
Rake, this is GOLD. Seriously, great post, and tightly written. I’m going to seriously get into this. I do a weekly link roundup on my blog, will also be adding your link next weekend. Thanks!
Rake, this is GOLD. Seriously, great post, and tightly written. I’m going to seriously get into this. I do a weekly link roundup on my blog, will also be adding your link next weekend. Thanks!
[...] did hardcore screening and qualifying (see my later post on Believability). She passed all my screening with flying colors. She’s 21 yo. and an aspiring fashion designer [...]
[...] did hardcore screening and qualifying (see my later post on Believability). She passed all my screening with flying colors. She’s 21 yo. and an aspiring fashion designer [...]
[...] thank god for Believability tech. I ran my standard strong SOIs here, one of which was that hearing her voice turned me on so much. [...]
[...] thank god for Believability tech. I ran my standard strong SOIs here, one of which was that hearing her voice turned me on so much. [...]
[...] I teased a lot. I ran some more Screening and Qualifying. [...]
[...] I teased a lot. I ran some more Screening and Qualifying. [...]
heyy I love the posts on your website, also great pics that accompany it. Everything has been really useful information =)
Awesome post, I agree with your framework here, very valid and good stuff!
This is a topic that I have thought about for some time now.
I’m curious (and maybe you are planning on a post on this in the future) about the time progression aspect of the 80-20 rule. For example, in a typical MM type structure, you’re starting off with negs, ignoring, going off on your own threads etc… and 80% pushing initially until the girl show’s interest, then you qualify (pull) and go into comfort (80% pull) and beyond. This progression creates the feeling that the girl is earning your interest.
Like you said, Zan, maybe your own style, and direct game for the most part is mostly pull - and I think that adding the 20% push here may be of great effect. I agree that you have to have your internals sorted out for this type of game (as you have to be congruent and subcommunicate high value) for the pull to be effective and it works best with high value girls. However, I’ll also take it a step further and argue that this type of game is optimized for high value girls that are internally validated, not externally validated.
My opinion is that proper calibration really depends on your target. For example, I’ve noticed the typical hot party girl (the ones seeking attention in a club, out to pump state and establish social status for ex) will respond more to push than pull. I don’t think Zan’s game will work as effectively here (I’ve tried). It really is about validation and creating massive sexual tension that can only be released by sex (so even kino and make-outs are to be kept to the minimum - just enough for minimal comfort and to “pull” on the non-verbal channel while you withhold validation and tease her). Another benefit to this type of game is that there’s almost no LMR!
Awesome post again!
Any comments appreciated.
Hey The Asian Rake,
Love reading your blogs, especially the one on believability. I’m heading to China from July to December, and alternating between Shanghai and Beijing. It’s my first time in China.
I’m always looking for people to party with when I travel. Shoot me an email when you’re free.
Cheers from downunder Australia!
Hey The Asian Rake,
Love reading your blogs, especially the one on believability. I’m heading to China from July to December, and alternating between Shanghai and Beijing. It’s my first time in China.
I’m always looking for people to party with when I travel. Shoot me an email when you’re free.
Cheers from downunder Australia!
Hey Flow,
Thanks for the long comment
I don’t think in terms of MM structure. I don’t consciously use negs or “show disinterest.” If I’m not interested, then I’m not interested. That should show on my face, my BL, etc. It will be subcommunicated. I don’t need to do anything extra to show this. Of course, this comes down to having solid inner game.
Yes, my style is mainly the Rake with a bit of Charismatic thrown in. See the link near the bottom of my sidebar.
I’d say Zan is a good example of the Rake.
You say you’ve tried out Zan’s style, but as I mentioned, the style of The Rake is not something you can just “try out.” To truly pull it off effectively, you have to BE the Rake. It’s not something you do (or try out). It’s something you are.
In my teaching, I focus on the fundamentals (body language and tonality) because that accounts for over 90% of attraction. And the key to getting the outer fundamentals down is having the inner fundamentals down–the right mindset and attitude. This is not something you can just “try.”
Obviously, the proportion of push vs. pull is partly dependent on your target. I’ve already mentioned this in my article. Pulling a girl in will obviously work best on girls who are confident and have a high self-esteem. I just assume that that is the sort of high-quality girl most guys are looking for. Maybe that’s just me.
Thanks again for your thoughtful comment, dude!
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
Great post. I am doing my “deep inner game” works like standing front of mirror and doing my affirmations. When my inner game gets more and more better, this post pull-pull-pull-push is like super hot extra! Shock Awe + little push + something that pops out my head when I am in the moment.
Wow. Simply amazing. I was a little skeptical about following a link that the author himself plugged in an MASF post, but this is pure gold! I especially enjoyed reading it because I’ve never had problems openning sets or running patterns, but I had trouble delivering effective SOIs. Now I realize it’s because I was “giving away” value instead of S&Q’ing her for it. I can’t thank you enough!!
Wow. Simply amazing. I was a little skeptical about following a link that the author himself plugged in an MASF post, but this is pure gold! I especially enjoyed reading it because I’ve never had problems openning sets or running patterns, but I had trouble delivering effective SOIs. Now I realize it’s because I was “giving away” value instead of S&Q’ing her for it. I can’t thank you enough!!
[...] before you read another word, check out the Asian Rake’s post on believability from a couple months ago if you haven’t already. Also, as he states in his article, this is [...]
[...] before you read another word, check out the Asian Rake’s post on believability from a couple months ago if you haven’t already. Also, as he states in his article, this is [...]
Big thank you for laying S&Q out! fantastic!! EAGERLY waiting for your Challenge Screening.
Big thank you for laying S&Q out! fantastic!! EAGERLY waiting for your Challenge Screening.
[...] before you read another word, check out the Asian Rake’s post on believability from a couple months ago if you haven’t already. Also, as he states in his article, this is [...]
[...] before you read another word, check out the Asian Rake’s post on believability from a couple months ago if you haven’t already. Also, as he states in his article, this is [...]
Great post. I really struggled with cocky and funny at first. It’s good to see someone actually talk about it in a way that makes sense. If a woman doesn’t have good self esteem or the guy using it doesn’t it throws everything off. It really is about finding a good mix depending on where you are and where she is. Thanks
Risto,
Keep it up, man!
Glad you got something out of my post
Tony,
You’re totally right. Most of the community doctrine is overly simplistic. Everything should be calibrated to the particular woman and to your specific situation.
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
[...] Asian Rake breaks it down hardcore with this post: Believablilty, The Key to Elite Game. I was totally wowed when I read this. Firstly, he’s basically giving you a complete model [...]
[...] Asian Rake breaks it down hardcore with this post: Believablilty, The Key to Elite Game. I was totally wowed when I read this. Firstly, he’s basically giving you a complete model [...]
Asian Rake,
You are my hero.
Hey AsianRake,
know you have to protect the innocent and not-so-innocent, so I have to say a genuine thank-you for still continuing writing FRs in the future for our learning purpose…
till next time..
Hey BigBadWolf,
Wow, thanks!
Black Onyx,
Thanks for understanding. Stay tuned for some major changes
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
Hey,
can’t wait to see what you’ve got to write about in your fr about toronto.. haha..
ps. props for using the word “galvanized”
Most push pull method works on the basis that girl does talk back.
What if the lady decides to clam up (just decides to ignore you silence)?
What do you do?
[...] before you read another word, check out the Asian Rake’s post on believability from a couple months ago if you haven’t already. Also, as he states in his article, this is for [...]
[...] before you read another word, check out the Asian Rake’s post on believability from a couple months ago if you haven’t already. Also, as he states in his article, this is for [...]
Wow, this is really new for me !
I’ve never thought there was SO much value and status gaming. Wow.. It’s just not enough to appreciate and love women? Or is this another perspective on loving a woman for real?
Wow, this is really new for me !
I’ve never thought there was SO much value and status gaming. Wow.. It’s just not enough to appreciate and love women? Or is this another perspective on loving a woman for real?
Great post Asian Rake.
It seems like the more women you reject, paradoxically the more women chase you, and that the key is to know what you are looking for in a sexual relationship and don’t accept anything less, put everyone else into the friends box or random hookup box (only if hot). The more you do that and sincerely don’t go after those people who are ‘just friends’ the more women are attracted to you and can believe that you like them too.
Great post Asian Rake.
It seems like the more women you reject, paradoxically the more women chase you, and that the key is to know what you are looking for in a sexual relationship and don’t accept anything less, put everyone else into the friends box or random hookup box (only if hot). The more you do that and sincerely don’t go after those people who are ‘just friends’ the more women are attracted to you and can believe that you like them too.
Asian Rake-
I don’t know if you already know this or not, but on the new site, all of the links go back to ‘asianrake.com’ instead of where the articles are on the new site. it would be cool if the links went to the articles on the new site. Just letting you know. Keep up the good work.
Asian Rake-
I don’t know if you already know this or not, but on the new site, all of the links go back to ‘asianrake.com’ instead of where the articles are on the new site. it would be cool if the links went to the articles on the new site. Just letting you know. Keep up the good work.