Singapore Girls: Looking for Love in the Singapore Dating World, 4 in 4 Days (Client Multi-LR)
Singapore Girls 4 in 4 Days: Looking for Love in Singapore (Client Multi-LR)
This report comes from an Aura member who had been with the Academy for just a few months when this was written. He’ll be starting his own blog soon, too, so look out for that to appear in the sidebar soon.
Like most men in Singapore, he is looking for Miss Right, the perfect 10 woman who can capture his heart. He’s scouring the dating scene in Singapore for her and took a break from the multiple girls he was casually seeing on a regular basis to audition some new candidate girls that weekend.
What follows is his report of a fun weekend as a single man in Singapore looking for love but equipped with training and knowledge from the world’s best dating academy.
Usual disclaimer: Reports can be good learning tools because we can learn a lot from the past. These reports can help beginners get inside the mindsets and attitudes of successful daters. You also get a look at some of the techniques and strategies that have worked for others. In short, LRs are good ‘case studies’ in the dating arts. I’ve replaced all real names. Some place names and other identifying details have also been altered. None of the names or photos are of the real people involved. I know that some “pick up” companies use real photos, often without the girls’ permission (some of my female friends have been exploited this way). I maintain complete confidentiality for all involved, unless they request to be identified. Respect their privacy.
Without further ado… Social Mojo!
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These are recollections from my memory from last week. It’s been pretty surreal.
A sneak peek at my weekend on my quest for the right woman:
THURSDAY GIRL
Decided to go clubbing with my wing after an Aura class. I had met this cute girl the week before and had exchanged numbers with her after a 15 minute interaction. Out of curiosity I texted her and sure enough, she was in the vicinity that night.
My wing ransacked the whole place and eventually he left me at the bar alone, haha. So I was just chilling by myself. After texting back and forth with her, we met up at the bar area. I couldn’t remember what exactly we were talking about. It was mainly just pumping buying temperature and escalation. About 30 minutes into the interaction, I tried to kiss her, but she dodged away a few times before finally she giving in. We made out.
Me : Let’s get outta here.
Her : Where?
Me : Anywhere. Doesn’t really matter.
Her : Okay.
That’s basically my standard answer if a girl asks me. After all, it’s about hanging out with good people, so it shouldn’t matter that much where we’re going. So she took her bag and left her friends. Before getting the cab, she asked me again, and I took a strong lead and strong belief that it was a done deal. She followed.
Got in my place, went straight to the bedroom. All of a sudden, David’s deep and sexy voice with legato tonality echoed in my conscious mind. “Remember to stimulate the 5 senses,” he said. LOL. So, I invited her to sit on my comfy bed, turned on the AC, put on some salad groove tracks (credits to David again), lit up the aromatherapy candle, turned on my ambient lighting that I bought recently, and offered her a drink.
Made her comfortable with the room. What I found helping is that I have quite a few conversational pieces in my room.
We had a good time and she decided to stay over.
FRIDAY GIRL
I approached a girl near my office and got her number within a minute using the 1-Minute Number Close. After some texting, she agreed to meet up after work. I didn’t plan anything as it was spur of the moment. I was just making things up on the go. We had dinner near my office. Then, we were walked around the city window shopping for a while. It was a slow walk but the time distortion effect works well as it was scene-changing all the way.
I decided to go for a drink and I wanted to go to a place that I haven’t been to. I remembered this rooftop bar I’d been wanting to check out so brought her there.
Along the way, I used the Pink Elephant technique several times. She was laughing and said that I’m such a bad bad boy. Something is wrong with my head, she said.
Went up to the bar, the view was nice. Ordered the drink and just chillin and enjoying the view. Again, I didn’t remember the details about what did we talk about. It was mainly building connection and Believability.
About 40 minutes in, I decided to move to another venue. I brought her to a club, something I don’t usually do, but my buddy was there, and I wanted to say hi. I took her to meet him, and introduced him to her as my ex-boyfriend and things got very ridiculous from then on. We were all laughing our asses off.
I then bounced her to the dance floor. We made out. Not too long afterwards, we decided to head out. As we were walking to the taxi stand:
Her : Thank you for the fun night! I really enjoyed it. *smile*
Me : What?! that’s it? The night is still too young. I’ll give you two options. Is it going to be my place or your place? *I said half jokingly*
Her : *laughing*
Me : All right, your place then. Let’s go.
Her : No no no no, I can’t. I can drop you off though.
Me : Ok fine then, My place.
Her : *Laughing without any objection*
Me : Ok, silence. I’ll take it as a yes then. Let’s go!
We both got in the cab to my place. When we got to my room, we had an even better time.
SATURDAY GIRL
I was being lazy around the apartment that day when I got a call from my wing asking me to go clubbing with him. So I went along and met a few of the other Aura guys there.
I was so laid-back (read:lazy) that night, that I didn’t even do any approaches for the first 2 hours. I was talking to random dudes next to me. As I was joking around with the guys and as I was in the flow, I quickly tapped a girl nearby and opened her. I didn’t even see her face when I opened, and when she turned I was mesmerized. She has a really beautiful smile. At first I thought she was Korean as she has that sweet girl generation look.
15 minutes into the conversation, I invited her to the dance floor. She complied and left her friends. I wasn’t really into dancing in the club, I just wanted to isolate her from the friends but it turned out that she’s really into dancing. We made out for a bit and I got bored of dancing after a while, and she just kept on going. So I had to drag her out of the dance floor with the “I’m thirsty” excuse. I was indeed really thirsty, though.
We went to the bar and got our drinks. She then insisted on dancing more and we bounced again to the dance floor. We were dancing for almost an hour until I had to raise the white flag and ask for a time out. “Let’s head out,” I said. I took her hand and walked out of the venue.
As the music was fading away while we were walking, I told her I need to get some water at the convenience store nearby. There was a hawker stand next to it, and we sat down there and just talked, getting some rapport. We then walked to the taxi stand and went off to my place. At this point, I realized that there’s always a reasonable amount of persistence needed to bounce girl to your place.
Simply said, she’s a keeper. We went out for brunch when we woke up in the afternoon.
SUNDAY GIRLS
I went back to sleep after sending her home and woke up at 5 PM sober.
I SMS’ed one of the girls that I’d been following up with. I invited her to come over for drinks and dessert. I met her at the taxi stand and we went to this restaurant I was selling her on. We ordered some cakes and drinks, had a good laugh and chat. It was 9 PM and the restaurant was about to close.
We then went to a nearby park and walked around while talking. The flow felt so natural. We were joking around a lot. I did some screening and qualifying, and she revealed to me about her family background. We sat on a park bench and enjoyed the beautiful night air and the stars (well, the few you can see in Singapore). I decided to keep on moving, so I invited her over to my place.
It’s all almost intuitive by now whenever I bring someone over to stimulate the five senses. It’s almost like a ritual now. I guess it’s one of those advantages of having your own place that it’s fully customizable.
She had to go home early as she was working early in the morning. I called a cab and sent her off to the lobby. It was 12 AM and I was still wide awake.
I texted another girl that I haven’t seen for a couple months, but we would text back and forth every now and then. I was just pushing the envelope. Bottom-line, I invited her to come over. She was surprised as she couldn’t tell whether I was serious or joking. Only until I sent her my exact address, she actually packed up and took a taxi to my place.
She arrived in a revealing sleepwear with a couple of bags for her work attire the next day. She’s super chatty and witty, sometimes it’s hard for me to keep up. I need to brush up my verbal skills. My short term solution : kiss her to shut her up. It worked! We slept very late in the morning.
On Monday morning at work, I didn’t look good at all. I was having a full day meeting and I was trying so hard to keep my eyes opened.
After a whirlwind weekend of casually hooking up with multiple women and stumbling into work on Monday exhausted, I had a better idea of the type of girl who’d do it for me, who would make it all worthwhile to settle down with. Plus, it was all amazing fun! I’m not going to give my heart out so easily. I’m going to choose wisely.
All in all, It’s been a great ride these months being part of this Aura community. I met a good number of amazing friends here and I want to extend my gratitude to David personally. He’s been a really great mentor, motivator and has inspired me to excel in life.
Therefore, thank you.
Cheers,
Social Mojo
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Wow wow wow. AR, my greatest wish is to save up to fly to Singapore and get training from you.
I agree with Wil. I should get training from you as well!
holy crap. I have off school Thursdays through Sundays but my weekends have never been this action packed. I should adopt this model you have here. lol.
Hey Wil, Mike, and Paradise World
Haha, awesome. If you’re in Singapore or the surrounding region, you can always register for a free seminar. Look on the sidebar for the info.
Cheers, David