My Policy on Lay Reports (LRs)
July 2, 2008
Been doing a ton of traveling lately, which is par for the course whenever I’m back West. I’m currently in Michigan for a few days, so here’s a shout-out to my mid-West peeps 
Had an awesome time hanging out with Adam Lyons (AFCAdam) and his GF, Amanda, over the past weekend in Toronto. They’re a nice couple. More on that in a later post.
Also, a brief reminder that there are a couple of spots left on The Social Man’s Spark of Attraction bootcamp in New York on July 11-13. It’s an awesome deal as you get all three consultants working on you all weekend long.
I’ve been getting quite a few requests for more lay reports (LRs) and asking about my policy on LRs, which I’ve hinted at. So here it is.
1. I think LRs are good if they’re educational. But the vast majority of LRs I’ve seen, including some by very well known pickup “gurus,” are basically brag reports that say very little beyond: I met her, said some witty things, she liked me, I took her here and here and here, and we had sex, aren’t I awesome?
As you can tell from the great lengths of my LRs, I go into considerable detail, and even then I still leave out quite a lot that we said and did. Often, it took me longer to write the LRs than it did to actually lay the girl! I also make sure I chart what I was thinking and feeling during the key moments to give you a sense of my internally-driven game.
So if you cannot write an LR that is educational and detailed, then it’s better that you don’t write one at all. So until I get the time to write a substantial LR, I will hold off on writing more.
Plus, after a while, they get very repetitive. I had a standard day 2 that I ran and was basically doing the exact same things, so there’s not much point in reporting on all of them.
2. I have the utmost respect for every single girl who gets into a relationship with me. I do not wish to disrespect them in any way.
Happy playin’, The Asian Rake.
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Certainly do like how you write out your LR. Much more detail than the any others I’ve read I believe. I like how you focus a lot on what you were thinking because I know you stress so much importance on inner game. I wish they were longer cause they’re truly educational and damn fun to read! But I know they’re long enough already. Many thanks!
Hey Benny,
Thanks for the encouragement. I should have an LR for you in a few days, so stay tuned. I’m also considering posting some past LRs of girls I don’t see anymore.
Cheers, The Asian Rake.
To write an LR takes a lot of time already. Who has the time to write a detailed LR? Sometimes we are busy with life and by even putting an LR is good enough.
There is no rule as how an LR should be written. Like that saying goes any publicity is good publicity