The Most Natural Way to Attract Amazing Women

Here’s a recent video interview I did with Myke Macapinlac.

Some of the topics we cover in this interview include

  • How to attract wonderful women naturally and effortlessly
  • What to say when approaching women during the daytime or at night in bars or clubs
  • How to dress to attract girls
  • How to get girls to chase you
  • The secret behind always being “on” so that you can meet amazing women anywhere, any time.

Check it out here…


The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man – Independent (Part 6/6)

A key step in developing that irresistibly sexy aura that comes from independence is by conditioning yourself to be comfortable in solitude.

Spend some quiet time alone, even if you are an extrovert. You can go to a crowded Starbucks, but be alone to reflect on your life.

Take some time out by yourself to reflect on what you really want in life and to just be with your thoughts.

In all of the busy-ness of modern life, especially if you live in a big city, you need to have this time to live as a fully actualised, fully empowered man.

Feeling confident in your own *physical* independence is also very important.

On the most basic level this means that…

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man – Independent (Part 5)

Opening yourself up to risk and the possibility of being hurt is an important step in reclaiming your masculine power. You cannot be strong if you’re living with a closed heart. It’s very weak to close up and not allow people into your life just because it puts you in a vulnerable situation. Too many guys get shot down once or twice and then they close up out of fear that it will happen again.

Remember, it requires power and masculinity to live with the risk of rejection and to live with a hurting heart. But masculine strength is all about getting back up after you’ve been hit and to keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done.

Let’s look at an example…

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Was the whole relationship FAKED?

Just got this amazingly well-written and lucid email from my friend, Michael Fiore (click here to learn more about what he offers.)

It is so good, in fact, that I’m compelled to reproduce it here for your benefit.


Flippa asks…

“I’ve just been sorting through a load of computer stuff I copied from my ex. I have just come across a file there is no way he knew was on that disc – it’s a Speed Seduction Course. I feel really weird about this. Firstly I should be flattered he wanted to seduce me in the first place but secondly I feel affronted that he couldn’t be natural and had to use ‘a system’ to get there. I have no idea whether the had this before we met or whether it was something he wanted to try and it’s totally blown me away. Was the relationship fake from the start? Should I be angry? Just another hurdle at the end of the relationship I suppose.”


Hey Flippa…

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Independent (Part 4)

Too many people settle in life, spending their lives doing only what is expected of them.

Most of society settles into a routine in their mid-twenties. And that routine does not change for the next forty years.

It’s deadening.

It will suck your life force dry and women will see it.

No woman wants to be with a man who lacks a purpose. No woman wants to be with a man who is settling for life – unless she is a lesser woman herself.

Attractive young women who have a lot of options can afford to be picky.

Now a guy who is settling in life might be happy with a girl who is settling and they can settle for mediocrity together. If you like mediocre women then continuing to be mediocre is probably a good bet.

But if you want to experience life to the fullest…

Click here to read the rest of this article on How to Become a Sexually Attractive Man: Independence, Part 4.

Interview About The Desire System On Dating Skills Review

Check out this brand new interview with Angel Donovan at Dating Skills Review on the lessons in The Desire System video course, especially emotional contagion.

Scientific research clearly demonstrates the potential power our emotions have over others. It shows that emotions can indeed be contagious.

In this interview, we explore this theme, some of the academic research, and how you can put the results of this scientific research into practice to use your emotions to succeed with women.

Specifically, in this episode you’ll learn about:

  • The dangers and anti-climax of a long seduction or build up before having sex with a girl, especially when it ends up you both ending up in bed very late at night.
  • The proportion of female friends that can help you develop your Rake character.
  • How to balance your Rake feminine side with your masculine through investment of your time in manly activities.
  • A strange Chinese historical story that illustrates some of the advanced mechanics of being a Rake.
  • Where David disagrees with how Robert Greene looks at the obsessive personality of the Rake.
  • The mechanics and a process for taking control of your emotions.
  • What exactly is ‘being confident’? How do you actually create confidence and project confidence in the right way? (Not arrogance or bravado).
  • How to build your own self-reliance and confidence though the experiences you pursue in life and David’s story of a recent self-reliance building experience he had.
  • David Tian’s top 3 recommendations for men to act on to get results with women as fast as possible.

Check out the interview here:

Dating Skills Review Interview with David Tian Asian Rake on the Desire System

The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Independent (Part 3)

Creating Purpose and Finding Passion

Too many Asian men tend to have their entire lives wrapped up in work, money and pleasing others. To be independent, happy and attractive to women you must create a sense of self that is independent of your job and money. If you are over 25, you have likely wondered if your life has a higher purpose. I’m not talking about some higher “meaning of life” or God, I mean just finding something you’re passionate about that helps you and others.

Think about the path your life is on now.

Perhaps you are somewhat successful in your field, but you are working too much, either at your actual job or at pleasing others. Like a good Asian boy, you make no time for yourself. You are afraid to spend any of your money because you were taught to save.

Where will this get you? Sure, when you are 80 years old you will finally be so rich that you can afford to buy a yacht and surround yourself with young girls. Of course, by then you will need a ton of viagra and you’ll have no energy to move.

Instead, think of how you can have a good future, but also enjoy your life NOW. Find your passions and purpose.

How do you find your purpose? You have to…

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Independence (Part 2)

Stay Independent, Even in a Relationship

Another way of developing independence is to train yourself to be more decisive and take action. When you’re with a woman especially, don’t force her to make decisions. When you’re on a date, decide for yourself what you want to happen. Decide where you want to go, what you want to eat, and plan it all out.

You obviously want to take into account her preferences, her desires, and all of that. In fact, go ahead and ask about those, but in the end be sure that you are the one who makes the final decision and takes initiative.

Why? Because…

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The Manifesto: How to Become a Sexually Attractive Asian Man–Independence (Part 1)

Thus far, we have examined five personality traits that characterize the sexually attractive Asian man: being a leader, assertive, adventurous, easygoing, and sexual. In many respects, all these traits lead back to one over-riding trait: Independence. The journey to becoming a sexually empowered man requires developing a quality of independence that is not always encouraged in Asian society.

Independence is the last piece of the puzzle, a piece that you must have in order to activate the other traits. You simply can’t be assertive, you can’t be a leader, you can’t be sexual, and you would find it incredibly difficult to become adventurousness or easy going if you are not independent.

Independence starts with…

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Honesty as the Cornerstone of Attraction and How to Demolish Your Deepest Insecurities in Dating: 21 Convention Full Talk with Outline

The original title of the talk was, “Honesty as the Cornerstone of Attraction.” I think that title still best encapsulates the content of the talk, but an attendee wrote in and said that as a result of my talk, he learned how to demolish his deepest insecurities, and I thought that’d be a catchier title.

This is the full video of my talk at the 21 Convention in Melbourne last year. I had a lot of fun meeting some wonderful people, including the organiser, Anthony Johnson, and the MC, Steve Mayeda, as well as many others. A big “Thank You” to Anthony, Steve, and the team for their gracious invitation!

Here’s the video:

This is the outline I gave out as a hand-out. It should come in handy as you watch the video.


1. Inner

Psychological Archaeology

• Use R&R (Reflection and Reframing) to overcome Limiting Beliefs (LB)

• LB => True or False

• If False, then Reflect, Research, and Condition

• If True, then can you change it? Yes or No?

• If Yes, change it!

• If No, then Reframe, Research, and Condition

2. Outer


Being Attractive = Emotional Strength + Honest

-Cyclical Process of a) becoming strong and b) expressing yourself honestly

-Former accomplished through repeated attempts at the latter

“Being yourself ” requires that you first “know yourself ”

Honesty is necessary for…

a) Coming to terms with all your current weaknesses

b) Discovering and deciding who you really want to be

-You feel inside when something’s off

-Genuine “Game”

Know Thyself => What emotions are you feeling and why?

-Be comfortable and content with your flaws

-Admit to yourself and others

Emotion = Judgement/Thought/Belief/Interpretation + Phenomenology


You can get the mp3 download of the talk by clicking here.

You can also download the video here if you want an offline version of the talk.

And here is the reddit link regarding the talk.

Please share with your friends!

Also, I would love to hear your feedback on the talk, so write it here in the comments or email me: david “at”

Get it done. Get it handled.